Sorry it has taken me so long to write my marathon summary. I had planned to write about the race Sunday afternoon, but there is this interesting post-race amnesia that occurs. The best way I can describe it is to liken it to the amnesic happiness displayed by women who have just undergone child birth. Despite child birth birth being a painful experience, the wonder of giving birth to a child overshadows the pain enough for women to essential "forget" the pain and only remember the amazing parts of giving birth (or so I've been told. I don't have any first hand experience.)
For the marathon, I realized how quickly the memories of the painful miles dissapted and how quickly my thoughts revovled around the amazing parts. Let's get the boring stuff out of the way first. I ran a 4:20:39 marathon, which if you've been following my times, it's a 25 minute improvement from my last marathon race. Whoo-hoo! My half marathon time was actually 2 minutes faster than my best half marathon time. And I ran a 1:37 first 10 miles - by far my best 10 mile time. My second half of the marathon definitely decreased in speed. I thought I may have pulled my quad for a few miles and fell victim to being distracted by the pain until I remembered I was carrying advil.
Onto to the interesting stuff...
I lined up at the start with about 20 minutes til the gun. At Philly, I ended up running with a few people I met at the start line, so I looked around and struck up a few conversations just in case I found someone to keep me company. An older gentleman behind me was wearing a Richmond marathon cap. I've heard and read good things about Richmond and asked him about the race. He started talking about some of his other running experiences...including 2007 Philly. Go figure. The coincidence continued when I found out he lives about 15 minutes from my parents house. Just chatting at the start was huge in distracting me from the nerves that had been piling up during the previous 24 hours.
Once the fun went off, I ended up running by myself. This actually felt really natural and easier than I thought it would be. During my long runs, I realized that I was able to get into a mindset where time seemed almost irrelevant. Number of miles were irrelevant too. Starting the run was just as good as finishing the run. Once I took the first step in the marathon, there wasn't a doubt in my mind that I would finish the race.
The highlight of the race came around miles 7 and 8. We ran through Camp Pendleton where National Guardsmen cheered us on. About 50 men and women lined the side of the road and I was able to slap high-five with every single one of them. Many of my family members, including my older brother, were/are members of the military. I have always felt very appreciative of members of the miltary. I seriously have a hard time not thanking every single person in uniform I come acorss - as corny as that sounds. So to have men and women in fatigues cheering ME on was beyond surreal. I suddenly increased in speed, momentum, and general mood. I was smiling for the next few miles. It was absolutely awesome.
Just after mile 10, Lauren was able to run along with me on the boardwalk. I love running with Lauren! It was nice to get someone to talk to. I was able to share my experience described above with her and get a mental distraction from any fatgiue I felt. My almost 2-year-old nephew, my sister-in-law, and my mother-in-law were all walking around and enjoying the beautiful weather and the race. Erin later told me about how much see got into cheering for the runners. Previously skeptical about spectating for a marathon, she admitted that once she realized that the people passing her still had approximately 16 miles to go, she joined in the cheering and clapping. She rocks!
My increased pace took my parents a little off guard too. They didn't expect me to pass them at mile 12 when I did and consequently my mother couldn't get her camera out fast enough and my dad missed me all together. (They did get to see me at the finish though!). The second half of the race is much quieter. There were less spectators and almost no music. The best form of entertainment were yard signs with corny jokes on them like, "What does a fish say when he swims into a concrete wall?...Damn!" Yeah - they were THAT bad...but after 16 miles, I will admit I was cracking up a bit. I started to feel some pain in my quad and was concerned I was gonna pull something. I just kept telling myself to keep running until walking was my only option.
With about 5k to go, I passed two landmarks that gave me some perspective. First I passed the Chapel of St. Theresa, followed by the lighthouse that Susan was proposed to near. Suddenly, I got that second wind that I needed to carry me threw the finish. I was able to pick my speed back up and finish the race strong. The last leg of the marathon was on the boardwalk. I wish I was able to take a few more minutes to run slower and enjoy the water I was running next to...but to be honest I just wanted to cross the finish line as quickly as possible and take off my running sneakers. But it felt so good. I felt so relaxed after the race. It was...beautiful!
I was able to get those shoes off. My parents and Lauren met me at the finish, along with my mother-in-law and my mom's cousins. I couldn't have asked for better weather to honor my sisters' memories. They were incredible people, helping me every step of the way I'm sure.
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I want to take a second to give a shout out to my "little sister" Bridget, who had a nasty injury a few days after my marathon. Please send her some good vibes as she words towards recovery in preparation for D-I field hockey this fall!